Let the Good Times Roll...

Let's start with weather. Last week saw our first (and hopefully last) snowfall of the season. It was unexpected in this part of the county, but it ended dropping a significant amount of snow over the course of one day. I tried to get into work, but found the going treacherous and returned home. It took me an hour to make the round trip to Poulsbo and back, and as my daughter said :She lives in Poulsbo!" Actually, just outside of Poulsbo. And as luck would have it (his, not mine), John was in California. There are still pockets where the snow is in piles or covering yards or fields, but at least the roads are clear, so life as we know it has resumed.

Christmas gifts were sent out on the 15th and most have arrived at their destinations. We are easing into the holiday here at home as we have no visitors this year. But we will be spending time with all the offspring over New Years and that is coming up fast. Roosevelt will be off to Club Med or whatever he calls the kennel on Friday and we will be on a plane to San Francisco on Saturday. There are dinner plans with friends, an overdue visit with the grandson, a football game, and more dinners. We'll return to our quiet space on New Years Day.

I am wrapping up and winding down at work. My last day is officially January 4. Accounting for holidays, I have 7 more work days. The department held a nice "see ya later" fete for two of us who are departing. They gave us gifts for our new commutes which included lots of foot pampering products for my city-walking tootsies and a gift card to buy some reading material while I enjoy that ferry ride daily. As always, there are people I will miss. But I am so looking forward to the new job!

John has also started some long-term "winding down" as he has put the staff on alert that he intends only about 4 more years with the company. That time will fly by, so, if any of them are interested, perhaps they'll want to take over the business. Perhaps in a year or two, he will reduce his semi-monthly visits down there to monthly. Maybe he would actually be here to be "snowed in" with me!

Well, the world didn't end on Friday and the Solstice ushered in the return of the light. Merry Christmas to us all and here's to a very Happy New Year. Till then...

Tis the Season (of Change)

I had a surprise when I logged on to my computer at home one evening this week. Daughter Kate was online and called me via Skype. I had me first Skype "conversation" with The Grandson! It was so much fun to see him. He has changed so much since my visit just after his birth. His hair (what hasn't fallen out) is turning a reddish color. And his cheeks and his legs have "filled out" as they do. He's a charmer for sure. That was a wonderful surprise.

I have accepted a new job! Come January, I will be commuting across the water to a hospital in Seattle to work as a Clinical Education Specialist for their Ambulatory sites. It's just what I did in California before we moved up here and it's a role I enjoy. The hospital was named Top Hospital of the Decade last year and my experience with the people I have met there so far has been only positive. They really have their act together. I'm even looking forward to the commute. I won't have to drive (except to the Park 'n Ride lot). I'll catch a bus to the ferry terminal, spend 35 minutes relaxing, and take a 4 minute ride up the hill in Seattle to the hospital. Once I get a little more fit, I'll walk that last leg. So, I get activity, exercise, and relaxation built right into my day! Win-win.

Of course, that change in job will bring some other changes as well. John will also begin to commute to the airport via the ferry and the train on his California weeks. We can ride together to Seattle and then on return he will wait for me at the ferry terminal and we'll ride back together. We're going to get a freezer so we can create meals and he will be the chief cook on his weeks at home since I'll be arriving home later. And I'll line up a house cleaner to visit a couple times a month so my weekends won't be spent in the trenches. Team Grant will "keep calm and carry on" through this period of transition.

We're not putting up a Christmas tree this year. Since it will be only John and I during the holiday and since we are leaving to visit in California just after said holiday,  I have opted out of the putting up/taking down. I've started putting a few merry touches around the house and that will be just fine. Christmas cards have gone out and I'll work on wrapping and mailing gifts now. John wants a boat so he can go whale watching in the Sound! The resident Orca pods have been very active locally. One of the ferries even had to stop as they were in the midst of a pod. So, maybe John will have to look for them on his rides on the ferry now. See. You wish for a boat, and Santa sends you a ferry! Ho, Ho, Ho...

Just another week down in the hollar...

Lovely weekend here at Miller Bay Road. John and I enjoyed a quiet Thanksgiving on our own. We made a turkey breast for him and a Tofurky for me, mashed potatoes (from our garden), peas (from our garden), and a concoction of winter squash (garden again), apples, and cranberries. Of course we had the requisite pumpkin pie, but only one and no other kinds of pie this year. We had a chance to watch some football (the English kind) and some football (the American kind) and generally relax. We missed our family members, but are glad they enjoyed the holiday without traveling. Maybe next year...

Our weather has improved over the past few days. There's that misty, foggy look in the woods in the morning hours and yesterday we had some lovely sunshine. It promises to be drier this next week. We had a little hail late yesterday to signal the arrival of some cooler air. These final 2 weeks of November are said to be the wettest of the whole year and they have certainly stayed true to that this past week.

We have been supplying the birds with suet and seed blocks which they love this time of year. We even saw the Pileated Woodpecker (huge) on them yesterday. Unfortunately, our resident bruin stopped by sometime last night for a late night snack of  fast food. This morning the feeders are empty and only 2 of the 5 can be found. We're not sure where he takes them. So, that's the end of feeding the birds for now. At least until it's more likely said bear has gone off for a winter sleep (although we are told they don't hibernate up here). Seems we're on his regular route now for munchies. Last week we had a pair of coyotes wander through the yard. Their coats are full and their tails bushy as they get ready for the colder weather. And a deer walked across the road as I was on my way to work one day this week.

The deck is nearly finished. Some additional parts have to be ordered to properly finish it off with rails on the steps. But it does look very nice. Lots of changes to the place over this past year. We'll wait to put the concrete in on the side of the house until the wet season has gone. But the French drain is working to keep that side drier already. 2013 will be the year of the shed. It still needs to be wired for power and gutters placed. The inside will get a loft and the walls will get finished. John will make a workbench as well.

This week will see John in California. He's been home for the past two weeks and now will go down two weeks in a row. I've got work and Christmas cards to keep me occupied. Onward...

A Little Thanks...

Pineapple Express. That's what the weather forecasters call it up here. We're gonna get soaked over the next week to 10 days. At least there's no snow in that forecast and no high winds anticipated. I can deal with that.

John and I are on our own this year for Thanksgiving so we plan to keep it simple. I won't cook all day! But we'll still have a touch of tradition and enjoy each others company. Maybe Skype with a few relatives or friends from afar.

There are some errands to run this weekend and a few projects calling me. The new deck is almost complete. Just the steps to finish. It looks really nice and I'll post a photo when it's done. I don't know if the builders work in the rain, so it could be delayed a bit while the wet weather passes through. That's okay. I intend to stay inside and be cozy for the duration. And for that, I am truly thankful...

That's a Wrap...

It's 27 degrees outside this morning! Even though the leaves have turned and most have fallen (though not all), it's still a shock when the temperature also drops.It was an extra blanket night last night. I guess Autumn is really here and Winter is fast on its heels. For a few days, we have emerged from the usual rain to have bright, sunny days. What a gem. I'll put away the porch furniture this weekend in anticipation of a first snowfall.

It's been a full week. John was down in California and stayed an extra day this time. So, he only just arrived back last night. My work days were full of one thing or another. My evenings usually involved trying to stay awake for a respectable amount of time. I went over to Seattle one day this week for some business. Riding the ferry is always fun.And I treated myself to a cab ride up (and up) the hills. San Francisco has nothing on Seattle when it comes to hills. And I had lunch with a friend another day.

Son Jake turned 29 this week. Another marker for us both. A child doesn't have a birthday but that his (or her) mother doesn't also reflect on the day they were born and the path their life has taken thus far.

So, things are settling back into a more "normal" routine. We are trying to refinance our mortgage and I have been collecting the paperwork for that process. And I have been collecting a few documents for my father's needs. But all of that is falling into place at last. Today I am going to go shopping! A little retail therapy will wrap up this week quite nicely...

The "Got To" and "Get To" of Life

I have a way of looking at things that works to change the reality of a situation. There are things you can say you've "got to" do or that you "get to" do. If I say that I've "got to" visit an ailing father, it becomes a chore or a duty I must do. If I say that I "get to" visit that same person, it opens up possibilities for a whole new reality. It was that way this past week.

I went to Indiana for the week. Not an adventure I had planned when 2012 rolled into town, but one that became apparent as the year progressed. Learning that my father had Alzheimer's disease earlier this year (in June), life took an interesting twist which resulted in two unplanned trips back home in July and, most recently, in October. While sparing the details, a few things are worth recounting. The role of caregiver was handed to me with the message that "someone" had to do something. You see, my father really had no "someone" to do that. We have been estranged for the past 48 years, only ever seeing each other on 3 occasions during that time and all at my instigation. My sisters had not seen him at all during that time. Which makes this a "got to/get to" story. I will say that, thankfully, during those years, he has had people in his life who generously included him and, when necessary, looked in on him and cared about his wellbeing. But they were not the "someone" who could step in with some apparently legal right to "do something" about his increasing state of confusion and inability to live on his own. Having that responsibility handed to me had to be a "get to" moment. To frame it as a "got to" would have gone against the flow of what needed to be done.

Since that moment in June, I have been collecting information and paperwork necessary for the "doing something". I flew out to assess the situation firsthand in July and was able to lay the foundation for his needs. Hopefully, he would agree to go into assisted living and that was the intended goal when I left that first time. A week after I left, he drove himself to the local Emergency Room in a confused state and from there he was placed in a nursing home, pronounced unable to return home to live on his own or in an assisted living facility. And that was born out durng this past week.

My two sisters and I went together to Indiana (in itself a rare event). During the past week we accomplished more than intended but all that was necessary. I returned home yesterday with the knowledge that he is in good hands and that we have facilitated his future care. Along this detour, there have been some generous and good people assisting me/us. My aunt and uncle welcomed me and then us to their home as a place to stay and, more importantly, provided the loving cocoon to which I could retreat nightly in July. This time they allowed the three of us to stay in their recently purchased, but not yet inhabitated, home on a lake where we could retreat and spend sister time. And during both visits, I had the opportunity to visit with cousins; important, valuable connections. Family.

Since the first phone call alerting me to this situation, I have met and felt instant connections with those who knew my father for a long time and, without any compelling reason, have continued to look in on him this past year. Just goodness in action. And they showed that same care and friendship to me, making my role easier and providing me with local eyes and hands that, without which, this situation could have been very difficult. It wasn't. I have such gratitude for having them in my life.

My sisters and I joined together with an energy to accomplish positive things this past week. I would not, just could not, have been able to do all that we did without them. What one missed, another one picked up. Where one's energy flagged, another was there to pick it up. We were a fabulous team. It was a full week; emotionally, practically, and physically. And boy did we have fun doing it! "Getting to" spend time with them was a gift.

Our father is where he needs to be at this time in his life. And we have insured that he can remain there and receive the care needed. There are conversations that will never be held now. Acceptance, not explanations, are the order of the day; to be "in the moment" and let go of the past. We had the opportunity to "get to" visit with him and to realize his state of mind. His cognition has declined even since July. He struggled to recall who we are or where he is most days. I have to take what I can from this and know that he will be cared for as he slips further away. What needs doing on my part will likely be done at a distance now.

"Getting to" do this for him has been a blessing.

Hey, Wait Up!

Time. Where does it go and why does it need to go there so quickly? Lots has happened since the last post. That grandbaby is more than a month old now and changing as I write. My heart misses him daily. But his mama sends me photos by way of cell phone that pleasantly interrupt my otherwise mundane days and let me make that connection across some miles. Lovely.

Our friends Ian and Gill visited for two weeks from England. Ian has stopped in before on his business travels, but this was Gill's first time. They arrived early in the week and began to acclimate/acclimatize to the time zone. John was able to show them some of the local sights, even going up to Hurricane Ridge in the Olympics. I wonder why it's called that as we don't get hurricanes here. Perhaps you are supposed to be able to see hurricanes from there? Or maybe it gets windy enough some days to feel like one? I don't really know. In any event, the weather has been spectacular since July, so they got to see the region dressed in her finest, so to speak.

On Friday of that first week, we all departed for Maui. We immersed ourselves in the experience, even taking Hawaiian Airlines which was a good choice. With the exception of seating that is on the compact side, the airline was a pleasant 5 hour trip. We stayed at the villas in Kaanapali Beach and had ocean views, giving us a nightly opportunity for sunset watching. Maui offers lots to do, especially for first-time visitors, and didn't disappoint. Ian and John even wore Hawaiian shirts. Ian chose a red shirt being promoted as the one Tom Selleck wore in the Magnum P.I. television series years ago. He caught the eye of several locals who complimented him on the choice although Ian has no experience with or knowledge of this Tom Selleck guy (or Tom Selkirk as he and John renamed him). He just bought it for the parrots! John's selection was a more "sedate" gold on black piece, but it's a start. I see more island wear in his future.

We arrived back on the mainland on Friday night the next week and had a relaxed weekend before our visitors flew back on Tuesday. And here it is the weekend after a packed work week. I am leaving Tuesday to attend a conference in L.A. and John is leaving Monday for his usual trip to the Bay area. Roosevelt will need to stay in the kennels for a few days. So, the work week was busy trying to get everything that needed to be done, done. And it is. Yesterday I spent a good amount of time getting a handle on paperwork needed for my father's ongoing medical needs.



Waiting at the Airport

On a final note, my sisters and my nieces and I have developed a silly ritual that involves a pair of stuffed penguins (it's a long story) who "participate" in holidays or other events. They even show up dressed in appropriate attire. Well, they stowed away on our trip to Maui and had a fantastic time as the photos below will attest. Time won't wait, so we better enjoy the journey, right? Here are some of the penguins excellent Maui adventures.


We're flying Hawaiin Airlines!



Looking out the plane window



Arrived at the condo

Ahhh....



Surfs Up!

At the Lavender Farm (5000 feet)

They loved the sand and the beach

Luau day after

Thumbs Up to What Really Matters...

What babies do is give one an immediate sense of what really matters. All the other mundane stuff falls right off the "plate of important things" that we seem to carry with us and keep piling ever higher. Perhaps we connect to their innocence and purity of being, some buried part of us that inherently recalls this state. It's nice to get there again. Babies do that for us.

 On other topics, John was away last week in California and returned Thursday. Our friends Ian and Gill will arrive for a visit tomorrow and on Friday we will all go to Maui for a week's respite. There's something uniquely relaxing about Hawaii and having experienced it before, I anticipate having the experience again.

While I was in California on Grandmother duty, John reported that the bear returned. He was with a contractor at the house and right there, in the middle of the day, our wandering bruin appeared, casually checked out the birdseed (the feeders were empty) and left. Last Sunday, sitting at the table, I looked out to see a young coyote walk along the perimeter and then pop back into the woods. We continue to marvel at the effectiveness with which our hardheaded brown dog protected her territory. In the nearly 6 months since she passed away, the bear has visited at least three times that we know and deer and coyotes have appeared (thankfully not at the same time!). The rabbit(s) - we can't tell how many there might be as we only see them one at a time and they look the same- has made regular visits as well. No one has figured out yet that John keeps a garden of fresh green things on the other side of the lawn/meadow/jungle clearing.

Last night we tried out the local Community Theater in Bremerton to see The 39 Steps. What a fun experience. The play is nonstop with only 4 actors doing all the parts (and quite well). It's a little like The Goon Show for those who might know that group. Loads of costume and character changes that kept the audience laughing for most of the time. This morning we will have breakfast with friends at Port Gamble's General Store and enjoy the lovely day ahead. Weather has been and will continue to be dry and sunny with temperatures in the 70s. I've got the suitcases out and will begin packing them for the vacation ahead. And I will enjoy the "stuff that really matters", courtesy of my grandson. That's a big thumbs up....

With Love Grandson...

I have been in California for this past week to support the new parents and, of course, to spend time with the new grandbaby. He has settled in quite nicely, even letting mom and dad get a little sleep from time to time. I will return home tomorrow and feel assured that the new family will handle anything that comes. They are fortunate to be surrounded by friends, neighbors, and nearby family to help as needed. I will miss the little fellow something fierce, but hopefully, in this world of digital photography and Skype, we will not miss out on too much. It won't be the same as being there "in the flesh", but we'll work with what we can get. And with so many grandparents, they will be spread thin trying to give us all equal time. For now, it's been a treat and one I will put in my heart and cherish.
Gram...

August 29, 2012: Morey Thomas Roscrow III

 "When a baby is born, so is a Grandmother"

Morey Thomas Roscrow III was born on August 29, 2012. He weighed in at 7lb 9.6oz and 19 inches long. Mom, Dad, and Baby are all doing well.

This grandmother will be flying down on Saturday to practice my spoiling skills. And I'll be taking my camera for non-stop photo ops. Expect this space to be filled with baby stories for a while.

They Seek Him Here, They Seek Him There...

Where to begin....

We have been busy the past couple weeks. Our warm weather came and went. For a few days it was in the 90s. We even used the air conditioner while we had a houseguest. Friend Ian stopped in for a visit as he finished up a business trip to Portland. While he was here, he and John drove over to the Olympic Peninsula to see what they could of the Elwha and Glines Dams restoration project. And then they went up to Hurricane Ridge to have a look around. John took osme lovely photos along the way. Ian will return with Gill later in September and we will all go to Maui for a week's vacation.

The baby quilt is packed and ready to go. I will leave for California on Sept. 1 to try out my Grandmother skills for a week. Baby Morey is due this coming Tuesday and there are plans to ensure he arrives this week. I am working on a special wall hanging for him as well , but I expect that will become a Christmas gift at my present rate of project completion.

John brought a nasty cold back with him on his last trip to California. He has spent the past week in a miserable state while it resolves (just in time to return to the not-so-friendly skies). Our mutual schedules will be catch-as-catch-can for these next couple months. He, of course, will do his twice monthly trips to the Bay Area and I will be doing some traveling as well. Besides my Grandma trip, there will be a conference in Los Angeles early in October and then the trip to Indiana in late October. Fortunately, we will both be in Maui at the same time! Roosevelt will need to sign up for frequent vistor status and rewards points at the kennel (if only such a plan existed) as some of our trips are at the same time.

On the home front, Autumn is beginning to show a little. The trees are losing leaves and there's a slight chill in the mornings. It was 46 on my way to work last week. And sunset is just at 8pm now. We have decided that instead of prepping and staining the deck as it wants on an annual basis, we will have it rebuilt with composite material. So, we have contacted our local contractor who built the shed and he will come around for a look. We also want hime to install concrete on the side of the side of the house and locate a stone mason to look at the deteriorating pillars out by the gate. Always something, it seems.

Dinner at the Cafe of Life....

A full plate. That's what we've got just now. My dad has been placed in a facility for Alzheimer's patients and I am trying to facilitate all that needs doing with a 2000 mile gap. There are some truly wonderful folks out there, though, without whom this role would be much more difficult. My sister and I will go out in October, if all goes well, to visit him and to clear out his home before selling it.

Our grandbaby is due very soon. The 28th is the expected date, however, he may decide that he'd like to make an appearance sooner than that. Predictions are that he is a large baby (over 9 pounds is the latest professional guesstimate). I am waiting to reschedule my tentative flight plans at the drop of a hat. The good news is that the quilt is done (I'm finishing the binding today), so it can go down with me.

As if we don't have enough things going on, we persist in self-imposed stress in the form of trying to give a home to a dog-in-need. Since our experience with Buddy, the coonhound, we thought that perhaps what is needed is a younger dog, one that is not trained to pursue small animals (i.e. Roosevelt). So, we thought we had found our fellow this past week in the form of a 10-month-old "Lab", recently arrived from a high-kill shelter in Georgia. We presented all the required documentation and went out to meet him on Thursday. Neither of us is very good at turning down a potential animal, so we agreed to bring him home for a "trial", expected to last a week.Described as "hardly barks" and "doesn't notice cats", we soon discovered the truth. He is an adorable dog. But he is, after all, only 10 months old. He barks (a lot), he was not calm and collected upon seeing dear Roosevelt, and he is not yet house broken. And, he definitely is not a Lab. He appears to be a large proportion of hound with a bit of pit bull thrown in. But he is also affectionate and definitely trainable. But that will be for someone else to do. We just couldn't accommodate all that he needs at this stage. We returned him yesterday. And we have both agreed that a dog will have to wait until there is someone at home full-time. No more browsing the rescue web sites. We won't, we won't, we won't.

I spent all day yesterday in a watercolor class. It was so much fun. Hopefully, it was just what I needed to inspire me to carve out some time just to immerse myself for a few hours a week in that space. I will try.

Today, we will reclaim the house, put away the dog bed, and bring out the items that were quickly hidden as "puppy-proofing" occurred. John has more to do in the garden than one person can manage, I fear. But the weather is delightful and he'll do what he can do. I got some shelves for the garage and maybe (maybe), those can be assembled and put to use. So, full plate. Would we have it any other way?

Fly Me To the Moon...

One of our friends is a pilot and invited us along to dinner last evening. We flew from Bremerton up to Friday Harbor on San Juan Island. Wow! It was crystal clear and a smooth ride as we looked at this beautiful countryside. It really brings home just how much water there is and the lushness of the greenery. Once there (30 minutes by plane - 4 hours by car), we walked into the town and ate dinner on the waterfront. We returned just as darkness was setting in. Good friends, good times...

Things are Heatin' Up...

We're having a heat wave....at least the kind they have up here in the Pacific Northwest. Temperatures will reach into the 80s today. And it's absolutely beautiful. Surely a day to pinch ourselves and be thankful that we live here.

John is back from a week in California. He'll spend time this weekend working on the electricity for the shed and maybe a rain gutter or two. The garden is yielding loads of peas and he dug up the potatoes last night. Still waiting on the squash plants to flower under their tents. And we actually have a couple of homegrown tomatoes!

I am going to a friend's bridal shower this weekend so I'll be out shopping some time today for that gift. And I have a quilt project in mind for the grandbaby, so I'd like to work on that a bit. I worked from home yesterday which turned out to be a good thing in more ways than one. In the afternoon, we received a call from the local hospital where my father lives and he had come in to the Emergency Department appearing confused and saying he wants to be placed somewhere. Nevermind that this was all in the works when I left a week ago. He has forced the issue with the locals now and we will see where it leads. For the weekend, he is admitted to the hospital to rule out any physical basis for his apparent confusion. After that, they will reevaluate him for appropriate placement. I will facilitate what I can from this distance. At least he is safe.

We have put in an inquiry about a dog (actually 3) that we saw online at a couple shelters. I think we would like to share our lives with one again. We just need to be more careful about screening for behaviors around cats. Lesson learned there. Meanwhile, let's see what today brings...

A Week Away....

I've been away for the past week. I spent the week in Indiana, staying with my aunt and uncle. They live near Nappanee amidst fields and farmhouses. As my son would say, it's camping dark out there. It was very good to see them (and some cousins as well) and be in a different place for a while. The weather was hot by my acquired Northwest standards, but lots of sunshine and a few thunderstorms which they dearly needed. The corn is struggling this year as well as most every other growing thing. But we had fresh melons, tomatoes, cucumbers, and sweet corn from the garden every day for dinner.

As I drove into town daily, I was rewarded with the lush green of the fields all around, clothes hanging on lines to dry, tidy farmhouses, and more horse-drawn buggies than I can count. Being in the middle of Amish country has a way of reminding you to take life at a little slower pace, that being "connected" doesn't mean spending all day on the Internet or having a working cell phone so you can be accessible every moment of the day. My cell phone didn't function out there (no coverage) and while this was a trip where I valued having access, it was manageable. I eventually bought a prepaid phone to be able to more easily do the business I needed to do while there. But I'm not so convinced now about those data plans and that 4G coverage. I got along very well thank you without all of that. So, I foresee going back to a simpler plan on my cell phone once my current contracts expire.

I met some wonderful folks out there; new friendships were sowed. In all, most folks I came into contact with were "midwest pleasant"; similar to the way I find people up here in Washington. It was interesting to see how much has changed since I was a full-time resident there, albeit a youngster, and how little some other things have changed. There are the requisite big chain stores cropping up in shopping areas along highways, but there are still brick roads in some of the smaller towns. The drive-in where I first had a milkshake is still there, but the building now houses a Subway (the drive-in was much better).The orthopedic medical supply manufacturers have their roots out there and they have a significant presence. But there are also small businesses that have been there a long time. The only time I saw a Starbuck's was in the Chicago airport. In all, the trip was unexpectedly refreshing and renewing.

So, I'm back to spend a day with my dearly beloved and then he is off to California for his regular week in the office. Sometimes you need to do things face-to-face. We will enjoy each other's company at our leisure once he returns. Coming home is always nice...

Living it...

The weather up here has been perfection. Not only has it been a week of sun and 70 degrees, but we have even had a few thunderstorms for authenticity. Real ones with lightening and thunder boomers over the house. Poor Roosevelt has run for cover several times. They have moved on now. Other harbingers of summer remain, however. The House Martins which take up summer residence in our chimney eaves are still here. The family is in full chorus day and night and since they are only about two feet from our bedroom window, it's lovely to listen to them. They will be gone as soon as the youngsters gain their flying credentials. Beautiful Western Tiger Swallowtail butterflies are about now. They are yellow and black and seem to be everywhere in the lawn/meadow/jungle clearing. John also found a nest yesterday with some brown eggs in it. Don't know what they are but hopefully it has not been abandoned.

John has actually been home this week to enjoy our summer. Tomorrow he is off to California where it is pereptually summer, if not picturesque. I had a busy week at work and it was such a joy to have him around in my off-work hours. Dinner would usually be in the works when I arrived home and the only decision I had to make was "red or white?".

On the home front, in his off-hours he has been digging a trench to lay conduit and run electricity out to the shed. It's a deep trench, but it looks nearly complete. He got the permit from the county, so we're official and all. Once that's done, he will speed through the rain gutter installation so we can place rain barrels before the rainy season arives. Meanwhile his hard work in the garden is starting to pay off. The garlic and shallots are drying in the shed and he picked the first peas yesterday. The addition of a couple "tents" have allowed the squash and tomatoes to gather enough heat to actually grow this year. Potatoes seem to grow well here and we actually had a little lettuce and spinach for dinner. The raspberries and rhubarb took off right away.

I've made more progress on the baby quilt only to decide that I want to adapt the design a little. So, today, I will make that alteration and I should be able to finish the top by end of day. Then I'll create the backing and it will be ready to quilt. I'm planning to have it quilted on a long-arm machine since it needs to hold up for a long time and that will also allow for more intricate quilting than I can achieve on my machine. The quilt finally told me what it wanted  to be and then it fell into place. It's like that with most things, I find.

Last evening, we drove into nearby Kingston (about 3 miles), parked the car and walked aboard the ferry. We enjoyed the 30 minute ride across to Edmonds where we walked 5 minutes to a restaurant (Cafe de Paris) to celebrate my birthday belatedly. The food was good, the ambience was relaxing, and the experience was magnifique! We noticed a couple of other places to try and will definitely expand our usual circle of "local" restaurants to include these across the water. We walked back and enjoyed the return trip while the sun started to go down. How civilized is that!

I will spend a week in Indiana later this month trying to sort out what can be done for my father as his health declines. There are things which must be done in real-time, face to face. I'll stay with my aunt and uncle while I am out there which will be a nice consequence of the visit. Life...

It's Summer Today

Summer. Today. Right now. Don't know how long it will last but it's lovely. Temperatures will reach 80 by the end of the weekend and no rain is in sight for many days. As predicted by the locals, July 4 brought warm weather and sunshine. Mornings are in the 40s. Folks from the mainland are in abundance over here as they come for their vacations in this always beautiful part of the world. Somebody pinch me, please.

I will travel to California tomorrow to particpate in a baby shower for my grandbaby. I'll return on Sunday. The beauty of reward points. John has a list of things to do while I am away and nothing to distract him :-).

We returned Buddy to the shelter yesterday. We were going to continue to try to integrate him into our household, but in speaking with the behaviorist at the shelter, she recommended that we return him. While we might have managed the housetraining and the containment issues, her concern was for dear Roosevelt who was living in the bathroom in protective custody. As she explained, Buddy's very strong prey drive made it unlikely that we would successfully be able to keep him from chasing and possibly harming him. And if he harmed the cat, he would no longer be eligible for adoption and would have to be euthanized. So, we returned him and, in all fairness, he was enthusiastic about going into the kennels. Perhaps we weren't quite what he was looking for either. But we surely enjoyed his affectionate personality, if not his incredible stubborness. So, for now, we'll keep our options open and perhaps we'll find a dog that loves cats. Roosevelt is enjoying his return to his status of Number One.

I'm off to work. Hopefully it will still be Summer when I finish...

Whoosh!

That's the sound of time speeding by. Since the last post, we have spent a week in California and had the opportunity to see family. Jake and his girlfriend came out to Sacramento where  Iwas attending a conference to have dinner with me. We spent several lovely hours talking and catching up. John didn't get to join us as he taveled between Sacramento and Redwood City each day (at least 2 hours one-way), so he arrived too late to have dinner with us. On Friday, the conference ended and we traveled to Brentwood (just northeast of San Francisco) to visit with Kate and Morey. I got to see the grandbaby bump, which was a treat. When I was pregnant, my mom never had the chance to see me in that state and I'm sure she would have liked that. But she didn't have the means. I'm glad I am able to participate, even on a small level.

Since returning from that trip, we settled back into the routine well enough. The weather in California was 90 - 100 degrees. When we flew into Seattle, it was overcast and 65 degrees! Our little piece of heaven. John says it's a lot like England weather. I say it's just about perfect. They are calling it Junuary, but summer doesn't really start until early July out here. Meanwhile, I'll take these temperatures over those in the rest of the country without complaint.

Last weekend, we traveled across the water to an animal shelter in Lynnwood to look at some lovely dogs. We felt that we were ready to love another dog. Of course, it's unlikely that one just "looks" at dogs when they go to a shelter and we discovered a guy that, by description and looks, would be a match for our household. He was described as a "gool ole boy who likes naps and snacks" (fits right in, we thought) and is a perfect gentleman on walks. So, he made the trip back across the water with us. He is a 6 year old Walker Treeing Coonhound (purebred no less). His name (now) is Buddy. We quickly began to learn more about Buddy and his dna-driven behaviors. He is strong willed (makes our former hard-headed brown dog look like a marshmallow), disciplined, trained to compete in treeing competitions, and thinks Roosevelt might be a raccoon posing as a cat. We have adapted our previously quiet routine to keep them separated at all times and will try a traing regimen to see if we can reprogram his laser-like focus on the cat from one of tracking and treeing (a game Roosevelt is not willing to play), to perhaps one of tolerance and ownership. We also are concerned that if he gets a scent or sees a small animal, the Invsible Fence and whatever shock it produces will not deter this guy as he is trained to ignore obstacles and get the job of treeing done. The fence people are confident they can contain him and we'll begin training in another week, after he has had time to bond with us. I'm hopeful that he is trained not to chase something unless he is directed to do so by command. His story is that he appeared to have been on a competition and got lost. He was found on a forestry road up north. Since arriving at the shelter a month ago, he has been neutered and I hope that has a mellowing effect on him. Meanwhile, he has lots of great qualities and we're getting to know each other. He's a big love and likes to cuddle.

On the same day that we got Buddy, I also got a phone call about my dad. He is developing advancing Alzheimer's and I have entered the ranks of others in my generation who get to care for an aging parent. He lives many states away which complicates the process and we're looking at ways to bridge that or perhaps to relocate him out here.

So, we're adapting to our new-normal and that is not without it's bumps. But, it is what it is. And time just keeps whizzing by.... 

Summer---Where Art Thou?

First full week since vacation. John went off to California and the rain came back. Along with the rain came cooler temperatures as well. Although it's June, I had to run the furnace several days. Otherwise, the house was staying around 65 degrees and that's a might cool for my taste. A dry day is promised for today and John has looked at the long-range predictions and some actual summer-like weather is approaching. In Northwest terms, that means I can leave the jacket at home soon.

John arrived home Thursday before I did and discovered that the bird feeders had been molested. Both were laying on the ground. They were empty in the morning but we believe it was our large friend Winnie (the bear) who stopped by for some fast food. And we found the wind chime that was hanging near one in a real state, all discombobulated and wound around the tree branch.Methinks someone was a tad irritated at finding no fast food. We agree to remove the feeders for a while so as not to encourage our visitor.

Still on the topic of wildlife being where it shouldn't, Roosevelt brought a mouse into the house the first night of John's absence. He brought it upstairs and was playing a game of (what else) cat-and-mouse in the computer room when I awoke to the sounds at 3:30. I turned the light on, closed that door, stuffed a towel under the door and returned to bed, hoping the dirty work would be done when I got up at a more reasonable hour. Unfortunately, the cat just wanted out of the room for his breakfast and quickly disappeared, leaving me with the wee intruder. I wasn't able to convince him to voluntarily run out where I could capture him with my trusty mixing bowl cum mouse trapper device. That's probably due to the loud scream that exits my lips whenever the mouse runs. Involuntary, embarrassing, and completely ineffective, I know. Anyway, I left a mouse trap in the room and closed the door, securing it with a towel and hoping that I would return home from work to a fait accompli (French term translated here as "dead mouse"). Apparently, no one else in this house understands French (except for my resident rodent control manager and he was away). I arrived home to find that Roosevelt was busy with a mouse downstairs! This seriously complicated the situation. I was able to capture the small creature and release him into the garden. And then I had to return to the computer room to see what might (or might not) be there. Was the downstairs mouse the same one that was in the computer room, or was it a completely new visitor? Well, the towel under the door had a very small opening which I feel certain wasn't there when I left it. So, perhaps the cat cleverly made a small exit route available to the mouse and then waited for the inevitable. In any event, no mouse was in the trap. And although I did not see any scurrying, I also placed a tall bucket with a small towel taped to the outside in the room, advised by a work mate that this method would successfully contain small scurrying creatures because once they use the towel to climb into the bucket, they aren't able to scale the smooth walls inside to escape. Then I closed the door, replaced the towel securely under the door and left it that way until John arrived home Thursday to check the room for a dead or live mouse. He found none. So, I will believe that the downstairs mouse was, in fact, the one from upstairs. For now. And I have ordered new ultra-high frequency sound blasters to deter the wee terrorists from even thinking about coming into the garage where our prey-driven feline likes to "hunt". Yesterday, I gave the garage a thorough cleaning and removed the birdseed to the shed. Today I'll spread peppermint oil along the bottom edge of the garage door. Truly, I'd much rather have bears visiting.

John spent a busy day outdoors yesterday planting some trees and cutting the grass. The cool wet weather is good for grass. It grows fast and long. I am trying to accomplish something with my baby quilt that may not be possible. But I haven't given up yet. Today I will go to the sewing store and seek advice. However, I did get a new machine that embroiders and that will come in handy for lots of future projects as well. This coming week, we will both be in California. I will attend a conference and John will work in the office. The sunshine will be a welcome change. And we'll have an opportunity to visit a bit with Jake and with Katie & Morey. It's all good....

My Summer Vacation...

We were away on vacation visiting family in Tennessee. The countryside is really pretty out there. In a nutshell, the following thoughts:

12 hour travel days, 90+ degrees, "it's not the heat, it's the humidity", patios and breezes, Cardinals (the bird), fireflies, laughing, pink T-shirts, the Red Top Bargain Barn, "lock the bathroom door!", a vegan, an Atkins follower, and 5 omnivores go into a restaurant, squirrels, more squirrels, Bluebirds, beets, air conditioning, swimming pool, Buddy and Ella, Jack Daniels Distillery, David (not Davy) Crockett, Stones River National Park, pushing the C-button, watch that bottom step, watch that top step, 5 minute showers, shoes, more shoes, let me fix your back pain, canning pickles, Big Lots, lower (much) gas prices, Dana Carvey, eating outside every day every meal, baby bunnies in the garden, new fencing, baby bunnies trying to get in the garden, '53 Corvette, picnic tables at a winery, arriving back home to 65 degrees, ahhh...

Priceless.