Let me tell you about the wedding....

What a whirlwind it has been these past two weeks. We traveled down to Sacramento last weekend and met up with family and friends (not much difference really) to watch Katie and Morey tie the knot. The bride was stunning! And the event seemed to go off without a hitch as far as I could see. I hope the B&G enjoyed it because we surely did. A special thing about a wedding is that is collects lots of people in one place who might otherwise not show up together at the same time! The bride's family surely racked up some frequent flyer miles (or car miles as the case may be) since they came from all over the eastern and southern part of the United States and from England as well; in-laws, ex-laws, and outlaws (as I heard someone describe this recently) all together and all celebrating being together. It was fun and fabulous and felt great!

Special memories of the weekend: seeing the bride walk down the aisle with her dad, seeing the groom get a little teary at the sight of that, being escorted down the aisle by my son again and for the last time, hugging people I hadn't seen in years; hugging people I see more often but never enough, dancing with my husband all night, seeing the look on his daughter's face when she watched her dad dancing, meeting for the first time (and hopefully not the last) my son's and my stepdaughter's significant others, dirty dancing with my sisters and my (always) sister-in-laws and my nieces, wedding-crashing penguins (long story there), bare feet, lots of stories old and new, my incredible and loving sisters, being called "Aunt Vic". My heart is full for the experience.

We flew back on Sunday evening and got right back into the work week the following morning. The luggage finally got unpacked on Thursday in preparation for a house-guest's arrival Thursday night. Our good friend Ian from the UK is visiting with us until Sunday since he was "in the neighborhood" on business. We wish Gill could have accompanied him but, in her absence, we are laying plans for getting together in the future. He has brought good weather with him and we sat out overlooking the harbor last evening for dinner. Today we go in search of eagles and then on to Port Townsend for a wander. We'll cook some salmon (Pacific Northwest staple) outside tonight with some vegetables from the garden and enjoy good wine and good conversation on the deck. It promises to be a summer evening and we'll take advantage of it...

By this time next week....

I'll go from MOB (Mother of the Bride) to Mother-in-law! We are on the final countdown for the wedding which takes place Saturday. The bride seems to have it all under control, or at least has everyone else under control. Relatives will begin arriving sometime this week and make their way to Sacramento by Thursday. John and I will travel down on Friday and return on Sunday. Sacramento weather looks to be in the high 80s - low 90s for that period which is not as hot as I had anticipated and far more palatable than 100+ degrees. Still, I'm looking forward to the event and sharing this joyful moment with my daughter.

John will spend the week in California and return on Thursday evening. We both have busy work weeks ahead  so the time will fly. Yesterday we celebrated my birthday by having some friends over for a delicious meal and good storytelling. The weather cooperated and we were able to relax on the deck for most of the evening.Earlier in the day, I had a pedicure and got my toes painted a lovely shade of lavender for the upcoming wedding. Today we will pick up John's suit from the tailor (had to get the waist taken in!), get the lawn/meadow/jungle clearing tidied up, and finish some other odds and ends that waited until today.

Life flows on...

Brilliant!

I feel as though June went by in a blur. How can it be July already? What I am learning is that, up here, summer really can't be expected to arrive until the "official" summer months. While living in California, one gets used to having summer-like weather even in winter. Up here, Nature is a little more *organized*. Seasons have seasonal weather. And now we are Summer.

July is proper Summer. The sun is out and the colors are brilliant. The temperatures rose to the mid-70s yesterday and folks are out in their summer vacation clothing. I consider mid-70s to be perfect summer weather! None of this 100+ business I read about elsewhere in the country. We are fortunate to live in a place where others come to vacation. Of course, that means others (lots of them) are vacationing here this weekend and will likely be here for the rest of Summer. Fortunately, I don't have to take the ferry to work as there will be longer lines now. But there is a definite increase in the numbers of people in the grocery store and down in the burg.

On Friday, we had dinner at the Loft and sat out on the deck over the water. It was lovely. Yesterday was yet again the monthly Farm Breakfast and we sat out under the tent on their patio amidst the gardens. Good friends, good food, good weather. And last evening we enjoyed using the grill to cook some salmon. Lest you think that all we do here is eat, I will add that we had a very productive day of yard work. (The photos are of our 3-foot tall potato *trees* and of the new fuchsia blooms.) And then last night we savored the movie "The Girl Who Kicked the Hornet's Nest".


It's a 3-day weekend. The Tour de France is underway and we'll check in there for a bit. It's a wee bit rainy this morning so it might be the best day to do things-that-want-doing-inside. I am going to make a lovely fruit tart for dessert later. Hmmm...food again. Well, that's as good a place to end as any. Enjoy...

It's Summer this Weekend!

Whether it stays beyond this, who can tell. But it's beautiful today in this green and lush place, so I'll happily take it.

Yesterday we did all our usual Saturday "stuff". But we also found a local nursery that had good prices on fuchsia baskets so we bought two for the front porch. We might add a third as John nurses his survivors from last year back to a presentable state (and they are coming along).  John started to mow the lawn/meadow/jungle clearing but somehow got a puncture in one of the inside tires on the shiny red tractor. So, today he will have to see how and where to get that repaired. Meanwhile, if viewed from the air, our grass would probably look like one of those clever designs found in cornfields attributed to aliens.

Today I will finally get the outdoor furniture in place and I will fill the planter boxes on the deck with flowers. Up until now, there hasn't seemed to be much reason. Hooray for sunshine! I look at my daily weather tracker and see our friends in California and other parts enjoying/enduring heat into the 90s while we still put a jacket on to make trips to the grocery. But not today! Today I will go freely wherever I want dressed only in my Northwest Summer attire: a long sleeved T-shirt and capris. And I will enjoy a day which reaches 70 degrees. By tomorrow I may even break out a short-sleeved T-shirt.

John is off again tomorrow to California and it's back to a more "normal" routine. But for today, it's summer...

A Nice Sunday...

 We were successful yesterday in finding eagles. As the tide went out, they were gathering to look for the clams or mussels. Such beautiful creatures.

We also enjoyed breakfast at Barbie's Cafe. (See the Yelp reviews here). It was well worth the drive and a new favorite for us.

A nice Sunday indeed!

It's All Good...

Back home after a week in California for a conference. The conference was good. My head is full and I have lots to think about. But I am glad to be home. John will be here this week, so we'll actually see each other for more than two days at a time. The weather on the flight home was clear as a bell and I could see all the volcanoes as we came north: Mt. Hood, Mt. Adams, Mt. St. Helens, and Mt Rainier and the smaller ones as well that make up part of that Pacific ring of fire.

Now the focus shifts to the anticipation of daughter Kate's wedding in 4 weeks. We're hosting the rehearsal diner in a nontraditional twist and I am finalizing the details. I look forward not only to the event, but to seeing family members and friends that weekend. All in all, Katie and Morey have done a great job of getting everything in place for the event. It's pretty much all done but the "I do"-ing.

Today is Father's Day and to honor our resident "father", we're going to breakfast out at Seabeck where we hope to catch a glimpse of some eagles. Even if they don't grace us with their presence, the scenery will be spectacular and my resident photojournalist will be happy.

On the home front, now that our schedules have settled down, we will contact a "driveway guy" to see about getting our driveway refreshed. And we want to talk to a "concrete guy" about laying some concrete down on the side of the house next to the garage where it gets very wet. In an inspired moment, we also had the idea of having said "concrete guy" put in a foundation for the needed shed. Once that occurs, John will build the structure. And once the concrete get laid along the side of the house, there's that generator to consider in anticipation of future winter storms and power outages. Seems like there's always a list.

So, on with the day and the ones to follow...

Sweet sixteen (eagles)...

On Monday I was at a meeting at the Seabeck Conference Center. I carpooled with a colleague and as we were leaving and as we were stopped temporarily for some road work, we looked out over a small inlet and counted 15 bald eagles on the beach eating clams (or maybe mussels). What a sight! Add the one I saw fly over the house last evening and that's 16 for the week. We seem to have a nesting pair nearby as we see them frequently now.

Yesterday, I was about to accompany the hard-headed brown dog outside when I glimpsed a large deer. Fortunately, I saw it before "uno who" and gripped her collar to prevent a certain chase. I dragged her back into the house to allow the deer to meander safely back into the woods and give Zoe some time to cool her heels. That wasn't about to happen and she barked incessantly at the now-gone intruder. So, I put her on her lead to prevent her from going full steam ahead into the woods and off we went. She did go too close to the "invisible fence" once and was reminded why that's not a good idea. But we spent plenty of time scenting and tracking (as we have done each time since) and giving out warning barks in case something out there has any more ideas about crossing into sacred land that is hers to protect. Beautiful creature though. So, after two years of no large critter sightings, this year we have seen the deer and the coyote. Can a black bear be far behind?

I picked up our "share" from the farm cooperative yesterday. This is the second week and it is lovely to smell all the goodies as I transport them home. Right now we are getting mostly greens of one kind or another as they are thriving in the cool weather that is persisting. Also some herbs and radishes. Wonderful salads at hand.

I spent the weekend in California to attend my daughter's bridal shower. Lots of fun and so good to sit and talk and share. The wedding seems to be in hand and I will send out invitations to the rehearsal dinner this week. Who can believe we will be returning for the actual event in just 5 weeks!

John has been in California again this week and will return tonight. Then I will be off next week to a conference in Long Beach while he stays here to manage the menagerie. I give my final presentation for school on Monday evening and then I'm done! Again! I'd like to think that life will take on a more even pace for a while then. Well, a person can dream. Right? But really, it's all good...

Remarking on Nothing Much...

We have officially lived her for two years! Actually, that happened last month on the 21st. The weather has warmed and when we returned, the trees had finished leafing out and the woods have taken on that fullness that wraps around us like a big quilt. The colors are vibrant and new, full of shadows and light. I like to stand outside and just breathe in the woodsy scent in the morning.

One of these days, I might post some photos from our recent trip. I love the immediacy of digital cameras when you take photos. But the human factor afterward is much slower than the previous process where you dropped film off and got real photos (and even a disc) back in three days. Now they get put on the computer and eventually get reviewed and hopefully given a label for future identification and retrieval. We have some really nice photos and I want to get an especially nice one printed on canvas for display as a memento. That's my plan anyway.

Today we will go to the much-anticipated monthly Saturday breakfast. Then off to do a couple of quick errands and finally I will fly to California this afternoon to participate in my daughter's bridal shower tomorrow! What fun :-) I will get to see the new house and my new grand-dog (our first!). And last, but not least, I will get some face time with my daughter and (soon-to-be) son-in-law. I'll come back up on Monday.

The week went by quickly. Back to work and getting a grip on all things pending there. John in California doing the same. He's back for the weekend and then off again on Monday. We'll see each other when he returns next Thursday. And then I'm off to a conference the week he is home. It's a crazy month. The hard-headed brown dog has regained nearly all her strength and mobility in her leg and is feeling more like her "old self". She's decided she likes our company on each (and every one) of her trips outside, so she waits for us to get some shoes on and exit the house with her. I have to admit that I like going out with her as well. Her energy is up and that's bad news for Roosevelt as she's much more attentive to his actions or even his imagined/potential actions, particularly if there's a "cookie" that hasn't been consumed yet. It's inhibited his spontaneous and freewheeling antics about the house.  I've been looking at the shelter list for a companion for him and I'm certain we'll find one just after we get through the wedding next month.

My course will come to an end in two weeks and I look forward to some "free time"! I have to create one small project yet for a presentation and then I'm done. I don't have plans to take another class after this (but of course I wasn't "planning" to take this one - until I saw it). Instead, I will learn to kayak with John and I will put some attention to some quilting projects and maybe get a watercolor underway. Just saying that feels like taking a big breath...

Vacation State of Mind...

We arrived back from vacation on Friday night and have been using the 3-day weekend to recover from a bit of jet lag. It's always nice to come home and this time was no exception, but this trip was truly extraordinary. I would go back to Il Casolare di Libbiano in a moment and I'm certain we will return. From the setting to the hosts to the food, we were cared for in a way that exceeded any of our expectations. In that place, we enjoyed the all too infrequent company of some very good friends and just simply enjoyed being. No TV, no internet, no newspapers. All were replaced by the surrounding woods, sun, distant thunderstorms, conversation, exploration, and so much more. There will be more to share as I reflect back on the month. At the end of that week, half of our group returned home and half of us went on to Venice.

Without access to local news, we were unaware of a train strike that was in place on our travel day until we arrived at the train station! Fortunately, even with a strike, some trains were still running and we were able to make our trip even adjusting for a fire on the tracks near Bologna. We arrived in Venice only an hour later than planned and a quick journey by water taxi brought us to the hotel, the Casa Santa Maria Formosa. This second week was more "energetic" than the previous one as we walked throughout the city, fascinated by the workings of this place that is built on water. The highlight for us was a visit from John's cousin Erica and her husband Nereo who had lived in Venice for 20 years, not far from the hotel as it turned out. Besides the pleasure of seeing them again, they were excellent guides and had arranged for a lovely "lunch" at a local restaurant; a 3-hour event with countless courses of local cuisine and lively conversation. John was our capable translator as we moved between Italian and English. Suffice it to say that dinner that night was only a gelato as none of us had room for anything more! Each day brought a different look at this interesting city. While I am not a big fan of being in a boat, it was the way to get from here to there. We spent some time on the water buses to travel the Grand Canal and to return from the Islands. We also used the speedier water taxis to get to the Islands and eventually to the airport. I'm sure I heard the theme song from Miami Vice playing as we sped along. Since we also had access to TV (one station in English - the BBC World News), we watched the progress of the newly erupting volcano in Iceland and wondered if it would impact our travel home. Fortunately, it did not.

We arrived home to find the grass as tall as the dog, the dog feeling better than when we left, and the cat suddenly finding his voice as he "talked" nonstop airing a long list of grievances. We'll tackle the day-to-day routines to get things back to "normal", but we'll do it with a post-vacation perspective; refreshed, recharged, and renewed. Last night we had dinner at our favorite place in the 'burg to celebrate our 12th anniversary! All good... 

Bella Italia...

John and I are off on our excellent adventure this morning. A short visit to the UK followed by an extended visit to Italy. We'll stay with 3 other couples (all friends) in a farmhouse in San Gimignano (Tuscany) for a week followed by another week (nearly) in Venice. There will be lots to share when we return.

Zoe is getting progressively better and we have a great house/pet sitter who will look after her. Hopefully Roosevelt will behave and will not try to impress them with gifts of the live, furry type.

Meanwhile, it's all good...

Where the Wild Things Are...

It's been a busy, interesting week. For the second week in a row, John headed off to California, this time for 5 days. I'll retrieve him tonight. We have some things to do this weekend to get ready for a much anticipated vacation that begins next Thursday when we trek to Italy for a couple weeks. I've got the house-sitter primed and we laid in more dog food than I imagined could be on the shelves. It's coming together.

The week began in earnest when Roosevelt brought a mouse into the house once again. I awoke Tuesday morning (and by that I mean 3:30am) to sounds of "something is not quite right". As an early tribute to Mother's Day, he had brought yet another mouse into the house, but with a new twist. He brought it up to the bedroom. Well, I was out of that bed and downstairs in no time where I could have a cup of tea and ponder my fate for a good hour or so. Although I have pleaded with John to get me a shotgun for times such as these, he is reluctant to do that citing some notion of widespread damage and mayhem. So, I was left with my trusty broom, a pair of gloves (yuck!), some plastic bags, and some vague plan to put a dead mouse into the bag. But Roosevelt wanted me to have a live present; much more interesting. Ultimately, I had to place a mixing bowl (where would I be without kitchen utensils?) over the unsuspecting gift whilst it was grooming and take it outside for release back into the wild. Since then, Roosevelt has slept in the garage with the cat door locked.

Yesterday, I spied a large coyote loping across the yard/meadow/jungle clearing. I gave him my most fierce yell, "Hey! You get out of here!". He took a moment to assess me and realized I meant business with my fierce words so he slipped quickly into the woods. Since then, I have accompanied our Zoe on her trips outside. She has spent a lot of time marking over the intruder's scent.

And speaking of wild things, I have ordered my "chucks" shoes for the upcoming wedding. Katie and Morey have encouraged guests to wear these purple basketball shoes (as their wedding party will do). Mine have MOB (that's for Mother of the Bride) written on the side and are quite spectacular.

I see that it's time to hop in a shower and get into the rat race properly. Enjoy...

May Pole or Just Running in Circles....

It just might be that Spring is here! There seems to be less rain than sunshine these past few days and more of the vitamin D-producing stuff is forecast. The days are definitely longer too. John did some mowing with the hand mower yesterday in preparation for doing the bulk of it on the shiny red tractor today. The grass has not been hampered by the wet weather.

We had a day of "getting stuff done" yesterday; post office, find a notary, check out smarter "smart" phones, load up on basics at Costco, get a few groceries and a lot of pet food. I also ordered the invitations for the upcoming wedding rehearsal dinner in July. I have a little work to do at the computer today, but should get to spend some time outdoors. I'll get the furniture set up properly on the back deck so it really looks like warmer weather has arrived. We'll use the barbeque tonight for the first time as well. John will do that mowing and will plant some shallots, potatoes, and beets in the garden. Last weekend he put the peas in.

Zoe is making steady progress now with her leg injury. She gets around more easily with only a small limp. We still don't let her climb the stairs, so she stays downstairs at night. She's not keen on that but she does it without too much fuss. Roosevelt has become a 3am nuisance. Once we're back from vacation, we'll get him a companion to tire him out a bit.

I'm sure the week will fly by quickly. John will travel back to California for a second week in a row as we get our ducks in a row for the upcoming vacation. I have a steady stream of things that need to get done at work and a small project to prepare for my class. I hope the sun keeps on shining....

Monday, Monday...

Great weekend! Gareth was here and gave us a chance to get out of our usual routine. For his birthday, we made lasagna for dinner Saturday night and strawberry shortcake for dessert. I haven't made either of those in a long while. Very yummy. We went out to the Point No Point Lighthouse and for the first time visiting there it was sunny and absolutely stunning. The mountains were clear and the sky was blue. People were walking on the beach and some were flying kites. Gareth seemed to really like the area here. We delivered him to the airport yesterday until next time :-)

My sister from Florida writes to tell me that she has already started up the air conditioning; quite early in the season for them. We haven't turned off the heat! This morning it's 36 degrees. Rain and high winds are promised for later in the day. On our trip to the airport yesterday, we noticed that the Scotch Broom is in bloom. It's an annual show of bright yellow all over the county, considered a weed by the natives. But it's a sure sign of Spring's persistence.

I'll deliver John to the airport transporter in just a bit and we'll get on with the week. Take care...

Let's Give a Big Shoutout to the Sun....

Well finally! The sun is shining and the skies are clear for two days in a row. Today the temperature is predicted to get into the 60s. The rest of the coming week is mixed with showers and lower temperatures, but for today we will celebrate the season of Spring in proper Spring-like fashion. All two days of it :-)


The goldfinches arrived on Monday or Tuesday joining the house finches on the feeders. And yesterday the house martins returned to their house under the chimney eave. They were here when we moved in and have returned each year since. Beautiful colors and fascinating flight. The trees have been saving their leaves for warmer weather and this weekend might just be the final push. Every day it gets more green here. And the brave tulips which have reluctantly poked their heads out will probably open fully today. I will celebrate by opening some windows to smell the fresh air in the house.

We have company over the weekend. Son Gareth arrived Thursday night to spend an impromptu weekend in the woods. It's great to have him around and share face time. This couldn't be more different a place from Las Vegas (where he lives).

Zoe remains on injured reserve. Her leg is bearing a little weight, but she has a significant limp. We stopped the pain medication as she seemed to be having some unpleasant side effects. Her demeanor since has been more alert and more cheerful. We do notice, however, that she seems to have lost her hearing. We had noticed it somewhat before the injury and perhaps it just seems more apparent now. We're grateful for her loving presence for as long as we can maintain her quality of life.

John is fully recovered from his tune-up procedure and will return to California this week. It has been nice to have him present for three weeks. I am plugging along at work and trying to squeeze in some school time. I'll be glad to have some unstructured time when this course finishes. It has made me see just how full my time is and how important it is to have some opportunities for doing nothing. And on that note, let's enjoy this day...

In Search of Vitamin D...

Still raining, but more breaks. It's running about 10 degrees below the normal temperature for this time of year, so it doesn't yet feel much like Spring; just an extended mild winter. Still, the tulips and daffodils are valiantly trying to put on a show and there is a lot more green around. It's just cloudy all the time. My head gardener has been on limited duty anyway, so nothing is lost. Perhaps next weekend he will plant some peas in the garden and I can do a spring clean of the garage. All the rain has made the grass grow (and grow and grow). Maybe we'll be able to make a first attempt at mowing it next weekend. Right now, the ground squishes.

The Z-dog has a tear in her remaining ACL (big ligament inside the knee). She has more will than physical strength at her age (87 in human years) and it tore while she was leaping into the back of the car. She's been on medical leave from all her doggy duties this week while she recovers. She's still limping, but last night, for the first time in a week, she climbed the stairs to be with the other members of her pack at night. John had been sleeping on the couch downstairs all week because she worries if she can't keep eyes on him and she doesn't settle down.  And then we can't settle down. They both slept poorly, I'm afraid. We won't put her through another one of those surgeries at this age, but the vet says it should heal sufficiently in time. She just can't do any more leaping. I know the feeling.

We enjoyed having some friends over for dinner last night. Good food and good conversation. We're very fortunate to have found friends that we can "hang out" with. Today brings school work. Maybe we'll make a run to get some bird food. But mostly it will be a day to study and complete assignments. If you see any sunshine, please send it my way...

Springtime Chatter...

We had some sunny days this week; two to be exact. But they were spectacular. The daffs are up all over the place and the tulips are beginning to bloom. All of this thanks to my resident head gardener who put the bulbs in last fall. The fruit trees, the dogwood, and the lilac bushes all have new leaves and seem to be thriving. Yesterday we joined a farming cooperative and will reap the benefits in the form of fresh veggies weekly from May thru November, even tomatoes! We'll still plant our garden, but this will expand our selection and we like supporting the local small farmers. This one is all of 5 minutes down the road at the Fox Dog Farm.

The Farmers Market  opened in Poulsbo this weekend. They have expanded and we enjoyed seeing all the vendors, some familiar and some new. That was on our route for the weekly errands which included the post office (to pick up John's new camera bag for travel) and the Pet Food Store (for the Z-dog's tasty liver treats she loves). We threw in a stop at the local Starbucks for good measure.

We said goodbye to Mr. Purrkins last weekend. He had been failing recently and had lost weight. Kidney failure was the agreed culprit. But in his three years with us since we rescued him from an undeserved and hard life on the streets, he had a good life and a family who loved him. We are pleased to have done that for him and he returned the favor with affection and some good stories to remember. Since then, Roosevelt has seemed a little lost, missing his buddy. Maybe we will see about getting him a companion.

John has an extra work week at home this month. He won't be traveling to California next week. My final school quarter has begun and is off and running. I'll try to keep up. It will be good to see the end of this program as work and home keep me well-occupied as it is. So, we're into a new week and new possibilities...

Calll it what you want - it's still rain!

I'm a patient person...really, I am. But seriously, it's time for some sunshine here. We're caught in this pattern of 50 degree, cloudy with showers and it's getting a little tiresome. It's Spring after all. (And that concludes this portion of the blog...the whining portion. Thanks for letting me get that off my chest.)

Living in the countryside has it's many perks, but it can also have its challenges. That was the case this week when, on Monday night, some locals looking for a place to drink some beer and sit around a campfire chose the lot that is for sale across the road. Once they drive up the steep slope, it's fairly secluded, but I noticed it because their vehicle made a heck of a racket going up the driveway. And of course, they were lighting a fire in the middle of a woods! (okay...so it's a pretty wet woods)  My peaceful existence here in the countryside felt a little violated and I didn't sleep very well (John was away). Next time (and I'm sure there will be one), our retired crime fighting friend advises a call to the local Sheriff's department. Apparently they are not unfamiliar with this springtime ritual.

Since it's been raining (pretty much every damn day...but I won't go there), activities tend to be those that can be done inside. I've been putting more energy into the family tree. I am back into the 1200s in one branch (my maternal grandfather's side) where I've discovered plenty of English nobility (Knight's, Earls, Lady this and Lord that) and some beheadings (one down to being on the wrong side of the Henry VIII divorce from Catherine of Aragon) and a Welsh nobleman who fought beside King Henry V in the battle of Agincourt. I had always heard we had some Welsh ancestry but hadn't discovered it until now and it's quite a rich history there. I am finding most of my ancestry is English with a wee bit of German and Swiss thrown in. While I knew my father's side was  English (with some Irish that I haven't discovered/documented yet), I though  most of my mother's side was German. The findings of the family tree have really debunked that misconception. No wonder I like Marmite so much!

John intends to plant peas in the garden tomorrow when the sun is promised to show in spurts. We will go to the monthly Farm Breakfast today, run a few errands, and tonight we are going to dinner and a dance with a 1920s-30s Speakeasy theme. I will wear a flapper-esque dress, a feather boa, and a headband, and John will wear his black and white sport coat with black shirt and white tie. The password to get in the place is "hoochie momma" :-) Should be lots of fun - even if it's raining...

Going Home...

My grandmother passed away a week ago. She celebrated her 98th birthday the previous weekend and by all accounts she enjoyed the day spent with family and friends. And then, without too much fanfare, she left.

Sometimes life seems made up of all the routines that fill our days. It's easy to allow the constructs we call "reality" to masquerade as "life". So, passages such as this serve to remind us how little all that matters.  Routines were quickly put aside as arrangements were made to get from here to there and back again. John stayed behind and kept our life here intact. Actually, none of my brothers-in-law made the trip. They all stayed behind to tend to the business of life. But my sisters and I (and one of my nieces) went home. Not so much the physical place, but a place where family comes together to share collective feelings and memories; a place we lived in the past but carry in the present as part of our becoming. Getting to "be" there and with each other was a cherished opportunity. Life continues and Grandma's passing is a part of that, not an ending.

So, back to routine. John had his first occasion to travel to Vancouver, BC on Friday. Crossing the border has become "sort of a big deal" compared to my experiences in the past. He was questioned and questioned some more. The Canadians asked him to bring a letter of invitation should he need to go there to "work" in the future as they are very protective of their citizenry's right to work. The US Customs required the usual 3 pieces of ID to prove his right to be in this country (once he made it to the front of the line which took a fair amount of time). But he made it back in time for dinner. He'll be off to California tomorrow, but we've enjoyed the weekend together.

We got some rhododendrons to add more screening at the front of the property. We had hoped to plant them where the county dug up the bank to clear the culvert which flows into our stream. But on inspection by the head gardener, he pronounced it too gravelly and opted to put them along the road-side of the lawn/meadow/jungle clearing. In the past week, lots of green has appeared on the surrounding bushes. Once the trees leaf out, we will be well-screened for the season. The daffodils finally burst into bloom and look lovely along the driveway and throughout. The tulips have pushed up another two inches and will bloom before long. John saved the fuchsias from last year and they are growing well. They should be ready to hang in another few weeks. And the bird count is up substantially with more to come.

We ran errands yesterday so today I will hope to get a wall quilt on an actual wall and see what else the day foists on me. I'm glad to be home...

Spring is almost here....really....

Seems like we have been busy the past couple weeks (post-mouse incident). It's been raining a lot (4 inches in the past two weeks) so maybe we've just gone into hunker-down and deal with it mode. John had a little dental surgery but recovered just fine. He's been in California this past week and will arrive home tonight. And it looks like we may finally be free of the rain (or at least most of it). Last weekend we spent the time inside for the most part. We have one more dance class tomorrow night and then we probably won't take any more for a while. By the time they start up again, we'll be packing for vacation.

This vacation is a team effort with 4 couples coordinating international comings and goings. The farmhouse/villa in Tuscany is confirmed and cars have been hired, train tickets have been purchased, a guide for Sienna has been arranged, and on and on. We'll end up in Venice for a few days before heading back to the UK and then home. And it's less than 2 months away. I'm loading up the Kindle with books and I will get John one before we go so he can give it a try while he's on long plane rides.

I finished up my work for this quarter of school yesterday. Only one more quarter to go! I'll take two classes in the Spring but one of those is the Practicum. I'll be glad when it's finished as I have been missing some of my "time to do things spontaneously".

Spring is due this weekend. The equinox will pass and days will lengthen, hopefully allowing more time outdoors. I promised John I would learn to kayak this year and we want to get that under our belts before long. Who knows. I might take to it like a duck on water. It's that part where the duck goes under water that I'm not too keen about. Enjoy...

*Local* Wildlife

Once again life was disrupted by the presence of a small furry critter inside the house this week. John was away when it began but thankfully arrived home that evening to play the part of the hero and bring peace back to our little world here in Poulsbo. Chaos reigned during the morning hours when, at 4:45 am, the offender was discovered. Roosevelt had brought it into the house and did not want any other members of the household to "butt in" on his idea of *fun* (which meant lots of threatening growling). Zoe was relentless as she sniffed out and uprooted the mouse from various hiding places, even enduring Roosevelt's attacks and scratches. At one point, the mouse found his way to the top of one of the flat panel speakers (5 feet tall) and then attempted  to fly toward the fireplace, only to come up short and drop like a stone on to the back of the dog who was in the middle of a heated discussion with Roosevelt over mouse-ownership rights. Right then, over the sound of the dog/cat cacophony, I knew I had to get out. So I showered, dressed, and gathered my things to go to work. When I left, the mouse was on top of the other speaker and the cat was on the windowsill beneath it. I hoped that when we returned in the evening, the battle would be over and the house would be secured. Unfortunately, there was no proof of that when we ventured into the house (I should say that John went in first as in written in some contract somewhere -I'm pretty sure of this). So, the game was afoot for my Sherlock and he set about to ferret the little creature out of it's too-secure hiding place. Some hysterical moments ensued (for me) (and I don't mean hysterical in the "hysterically-funny" way) as John had the little guy in his hands at one point but it wriggled free to run under the couch. Zoe was called in to assist and with John's muscle and Zoe's speed, they were able to capture the offender. Hopefully, this will not occur again this year as the weather warms and the small criminals do not seek the shelter of the garage.

Speaking of weather, surely the cold is on its way out now to make room for Spring's arrival. February apparently made up for the lack of true winter weather this season  by cramming it all in 28 days. Today the sun is shining and there are  many signs that Spring is ready and willing to move in. We bought a couple of rhododendrons yesterday and John has cleared a fairly large area to plant the lilac bushes along with some other colorful plants. Soon he will be able to place the foundation for the shed. I'll be able to do a little pressure washing of the porch and the deck before setting up the outdoor living spaces that are so nice when it's warmer.

We went to the monthly Farm Breakfast yesterday and were joined by some wonderful friends. What a great way to start a weekend. John had some dental surgery on Friday and recovered from that without a problem. All the running-around errands were completed yesterday, so today will be a day to enjoy being at home. I will make some progress on my course assignments, but will take some time to read as well. Monday comes back soon enough. March is looking good....